Bachelorette parties have become one of the most anticipated celebrations leading up to the big day! Whether you’re planning a weekend getaway, a night out, or a low-key celebration with her favorite people, it’s the perfect chance to gather the girls and celebrate the bride-to-be. But between wedding planning, travel details, reservations, and all the little extras, pulling it all together can feel like a lot.
We’ve got you covered! We’re sharing the bachelorette party essentials you’ll want on your list, plus some of our favorite themes to inspire your celebration. Consider this your go-to guide for planning a bachelorette weekend everyone will be talking about long after it’s over!
Photo: Tammy Odell Photography
How soon before the wedding should a bride host her bachelorette party?
We suggest hosting your bachelorette party anywhere from two to six weeks before the wedding. Getting crazy with your girls so close to the big day can be a recipe for disaster – and lets be honest, a hangover and tired eyes aren’t exactly the bridal glow you’re going for. Extra planning tip: see if there’s a holiday weekend around that time to snag an extra paid vacation day!
Which cities are bachelorette party hotspots?
Don’t get too caught up on the destination of your party, especially if your crew has a smaller budget – you can plan an awesome bachelorette right here locally! Oklahoma City and Tulsa have incredible restaurants, bars and private party spaces to kick off the festivities, and if you choose a specific location, like downtown, you can hop around one area on foot.
Looking to make a weekend out of your bach? Our team has celebrated brides-to-be with music-filled nights in Austin and Nashville, outdoor adventures in San Diego, city exploring in New York City, snowy getaways in Breckenridge, beach days in Seaside, Florida, and party-hopping in Miami and Las Vegas. Choose the destination that best fits your crew and get ready for a weekend to remember!
What activities should we have planned?
The best bachelorette activities are the ones that feel personal to your group. There’s truly something for everyone, and gone are the days when every bach has to mean bar hopping and hot-pink everything. Think outside the box with a paddleboarding session, a full day of spa treatments, or another activity your group will genuinely enjoy.
Spring is also the perfect time to get outside and soak up the sunshine. Renting a boat, lounging by a chic hotel pool with a frozen cocktail, or planning a fun outdoor excursion can make for an unforgettable day. Private experiences and group bookings are also having a major moment, with activities like permanent jewelry offering a fun way to create a keepsake everyone can enjoy.
Photo // EverFaith Jewelry
Add an extra touch of fun to your bachelorette party with customizable pieces from Everfaith Jewelry. Whether you’re looking for a unique activity, thoughtful favor, or keepsake to remember the weekend, their handcrafted jewelry is a fun way to make your bach celebration feel extra special!
Custom Bouquets: Velvet Stem
Another charming activity to consider is a build-your-own bouquet bar — and luckily, we know just the gal. Velvet Stem’s custom bouquet bar adds the sweetest touch to any celebration, giving guests a hands-on experience they’ll actually remember. It’s a thoughtful way to send them home with a little “thank you,” and honestly, who wouldn’t love designing their own bouquet!? You can go bold with vibrant blooms for a fun pop of color or keep everything cohesive by matching the florals to your wedding palette.
Engraving: Ever Etched Calligraphy
Custom engraving is having a major moment, and your girls would love a personalized piece from Ever Etched Calligraphy! It’s the perfect gift to kick off your bachelorette weekend—think engraved compact mirrors, chic hair clips, or even custom perfume bottles. The options are endless, and we’re already picturing the cutest photo ops with all your girls in matching (but uniquely customized!) pieces.
Embroidery: Bartell Embroidery
Want a keepsake your girls will actually use long after the weekend is over? Bartell Embroidery creates custom embroidered pieces personalized with names, initials, monograms, or a custom design, making it easy to coordinate the whole crew while still giving each piece a personal touch. Check out their live, on-site embroidery and let everyone watch their piece come to life during the celebration!
What is the biggest mistake girls make when planning their own bachelorette parties?
The biggest mistake bridesmaids can make is planning around what they think a bachelorette party should look like instead of what they think the bride really wants. If nightclubs, male strippers and phallic party favors aren’t your thing, don’t book the next ticket to Vegas. Get creative and plan a weekend filled with things that you love.
As her wing women, this is your time to cater to your bride-to-be as well as foot the bill, so be sensitive of any personal budgets to avoid tension amongst the group. Think of local vendors who can help plan or decorate your event as well! Balloons are always a hit, and Oklahoma has its fair share of quality vendors. Some of our favorites include Balloon Therapy OKC and Tulsa, Pop and Fringe, and Boujee Balloons by Baleigh.
Photo // Balloon Therapy OKC
Bachelorette Party Themes
Half the fun of planning the perfect bach bash is choosing a theme that sets the tone for the entire celebration! Once you’ve settled on your destination and guest list, it’s time to bring the vision to life. For an Oklahoma bach, consider a Disco Cowgirl weekend, a Pool Club-inspired celebration, or a Garden Party soirée. Choose a theme that reflects the bride’s personality and let it inspire everything from the outfits and décor to the cocktails and activities.
