How to Plan a Bachelorette Party in OKC and Tulsa

January 26

Bachelorette parties are a right of passage in today’s pre-wedding festivities. The bride-to-be gathers all of her girlfriends, and they hit the town to celebrate her last days as a single lady. However, planning every detail of the party can be stressful on top of planning your upcoming wedding.

No worries – we’ve got you! We’ve pulled together all the essentials you need to get started, PLUS we are sharing some of our favorite #BachBash party themes. You’re just a few scrolls away from being all set for your bride-to-be weekend that will leave your girls talking for years to come!

Photo: Tammy Odell Photography

How soon before the wedding should a bride host her bachelorette party?

We suggest hosting your bachelorette party anywhere from two to six weeks before the wedding. Getting crazy with your girls so close to the big day can be a recipe for disaster – and lets be honest, a hangover and tired eyes aren’t exactly the bridal glow you’re going for. Extra planning tip: see if there’s a holiday weekend around that time to snag an extra paid vacation day!

Which cities are bachelorette party hotspots?

Don’t get too caught up on the destination of your party, especially if your crew has a smaller budget – you can plan an awesome bachelorette right here locally! Oklahoma City and Tulsa have incredible restaurants, bars and private party spaces to kick off the evening’s festivities, and if you choose a specific location, like downtown, you can hop around one area on foot.

Looking to make a weekend out of your bach bash? Our team has celebrated brides-to-be with music filled nights in Austin and Nashville, outdoor adventure settings in San Diego, city exploration in New York City, a snowy retreat in Breckenridge, beachside at Florida’s Seaside, and party hopping in Miami and Las Vegas. Choose the city that best fits your group of pals.

What activities should we have planned?

It’s important to create a unique experience based off of your own group. There truly is something for everyone. Gone are the days where every bachelorette party has to include bar hopping and hot pink everything. Try getting outdoors with your girls for a paddle board session or into a spa for a complete day of pampering.

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With spring being prime wedding season, girls typically want to get out and enjoy the sunshine. Renting a boat or lounging at a chic hotel pool with a frozen cocktail always makes for a fun time. Also, activities that offer private style bookings have been super popular, like permanent jewelry! A team favorite is Hitch by Billie, who will adorn your bridesmaids with beautiful, dainty welded jewelry — the perfect way to say thank you!

Jewelry: Hitch by Billie

Add an extra touch of fun to your bachelorette party with customizable pieces from BWM Charms. Perfect as keepsakes, favors, or as a fun activity, their handcrafted jewelry will make your bach a celebration to remember!

Let Kindred Moments Handle the Details!

Your bachelorette weekend just got a major upgrade! Kindred Moments takes the stress off your plate so you can focus on the fun. Whether it’s decking out your Airbnb with jaw-dropping decor, stocking the kitchen with essentials (and a few party surprises), or planning a seamless itinerary, Kindred Moments has you covered. All you have to do is show up and celebrate!

Bach Decor: From playful balloon installations to Insta-worthy setups, Kindred Moments transforms any space into the ultimate party vibe.
Kitchen Stocking: Forget last-minute grocery runs! They’ll stock your fridge with all your must-haves, recycle the bags, and donate any unopened leftovers.
Itinerary Planning: Spa day? Rooftop bar? Themed dinners? Kindred Moments crafts a custom itinerary so you can enjoy every moment without the hassle.

For an effortless, unforgettable bachelorette weekend, let Kindred Moments take care of the details while you make the memories!

What is the biggest mistake girls make when planning their own bachelorette parties?

The biggest mistake bridesmaids can make is planning around what they think a bachelorette party should look like instead of what they think the bride really wants. If nightclubs, male strippers and phallic party favors aren’t your thing, don’t book the next ticket to Vegas. Get creative and plan a weekend filled with things that you love.

As her wing women, this is your time to cater to your bride-to-be as well as foot the bill, so be sensitive of any personal budgets to avoid tension amongst the group. Think of local vendors who can help plan or decorate your event as well! Balloons are always a hit, and Oklahoma has its fair share of quality vendors. Some of our favorites include Balloon Therapy OKC and Tulsa, Pop and Fringe, and Easton Designs.

Photo: Courtesy of Balloon Therapy OKC

Bachelorette Party Themes & Favors

Half the fun in planning the perfect bach bash is choosing the perfect bachelorette party theme, amiright?! Once you’ve nailed down your party destination and attendee list, it’s time to nail down the party favors. Our top picks for an Oklahoma bachelorette party theme are Bach and Boujee, Final Fiesta, and Feyoncé pool party.

If you’re planning a wedding and looking to add a stylish, personalized touch, a custom hat bar is the perfect addition! It’s a fun and interactive experience where guests can design their own hats to match your wedding theme or their personal vibe. Whether you’re going for something chic and boho, bold and playful, or classic and understated, a hat bar adds a memorable element to your celebration. These custom creations also make amazing keepsakes or gifts for your bridal party and guests – something they’ll actually want to wear long after the big day!